Public Announcement: The Divorce Rumors

2 Dec

This announcement has been a long time coming.  I’ve put off talking about this because of how difficult and painful it’s been, but enough time has passed and most people know despite my attempts to remain private about it. So to end any possible rumors or discussion about it, I will confirm that Rob and I have divorced and are no longer together.

As you might imagine, this has been incredibly difficult to deal with – especially as I face my first holiday alone in some time.  While I appreciate the many comments and emails that have been coming in to express concern, I am asking that my friends, peers, and colleagues please respect my wishes to deal with this privately.  The relationship is over and I wish him and his family only happiness.

I recognize that most of my life has been an open book, including my wedding.  An important lesson that I take away from this is that I must have more privacy in my personal life.  For that reason, I will not be discussing this publicly – online or via email, or otherwise.  I hope you can understand my need for privacy and protection, not just for my own self, but also for the kids’ well being.

Thank you to everyone.  I’m working hard to move forward in a positive way:  through music, dance, and using my voice in advocacy and obesity issues awareness. I remain grateful to have so many people who care and check in on me, and I thank you all for your love and support.

-Taunia

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23 Responses to “Public Announcement: The Divorce Rumors”

  1. Skymoon1982 @ youtube December 2, 2011 at 2:18 pm #

    Im so sorry to hear a about this Taunia and hope everyone respects your privacy. Hope you have a great holiday

  2. Joy Ross December 2, 2011 at 2:37 pm #

    Taunia, I too am sorry to hear that you and your family are going through this difficult time. I only *know* you through your wonderful blogs and radio show but you come across as a very kind and genuine person and have been extremely inspirational to me. I sincerely wish you the very best through all of this.
    Joy

    • joan December 4, 2011 at 5:25 am #

      Right on, Joy! She’s the nicest person you’d ever want to know. I love her to pieces! I pray for her. God sees all and will wash away her tears! God Bless, you and Taunia! <3

      joan

  3. Beth Ism December 2, 2011 at 2:39 pm #

    Well. There’s that. xo Taunia. PS. I had no idea.

  4. Janine December 2, 2011 at 2:40 pm #

    I’m so sorry, I know the feelings that come with divorce, not just for the loss of a relationship but for the extreme changes and challenges ahead. It can be a dark time, but remember that you will always come out of the other side a better… and stronger person as much as it’s hard to feel right now. It’s hard to shake the stigma that comes from divorce as well, and you have to fight your own feelings about it. It’s such a life changing thing. I wish you lots of love, and most of all lots of self love to draw from. ♥ ♥ ♥

  5. Beth Ism December 2, 2011 at 2:49 pm #

    And, I get it. I still have people searching my blog for posts. I removed much of it, because I couldn’t take the nasty comments anymore.

  6. sallygetssassy December 2, 2011 at 2:56 pm #

    my most sincere best wishes for your new destiny…..

  7. Vikki's Journey December 2, 2011 at 3:11 pm #

    Love you ((HUGS))

  8. ms_jones74 December 2, 2011 at 3:32 pm #

    Lots of love to you, Taunia! XOXO.

  9. Courtney December 2, 2011 at 4:40 pm #

    <3

  10. Tom December 2, 2011 at 4:50 pm #

    Big Hug’s just for you !!

  11. Rickydee Sleever December 2, 2011 at 6:00 pm #

    Maintain your privacy, you have no obligation to do otherwise…

  12. Linda December 2, 2011 at 6:46 pm #

    May people respect your privacy and give you peace.

    Linda

  13. Wendy December 2, 2011 at 6:57 pm #

    My heart aches for you. I had no inkling of an idea. I know personally how difficult any type of loss can be, especially around the holidays. I wish you all of the best the future has to hold for you. Hang in there and KNOW that things WILL get better – beyond your expectations! Sending you lots of love, Wendy

    • joan December 4, 2011 at 5:30 am #

      Yes, Wendy! My heart aches for her, too. She’s one of my best friends. The holidays can be hard, but at least she’s with family. I love her so much! God Bless you and Taunia!

      joan <3

  14. Summer D Lum December 2, 2011 at 7:08 pm #

    Like many, I only know you through your wls journey- but you were an inspiration to me even then. I know first hand that divorce is very very hard- sometimes you can love someone with everything in you, but you can not live compatibly with that person. Just know that along with your MANY MANY fans, we will help support you through this because we do care and we do listen- and we all find that you are an amazing woman.

    Keep your head up beautiful- your soul is still shining bright <3

  15. Roux-en Y mitzi44 December 2, 2011 at 10:52 pm #

    Really sorry to read this, I have also clicked like be cus you have written openly and honestly to ask for privacy. I hope your wishes are respected.
    All the best

    Mitzi x

  16. Laine December 3, 2011 at 1:35 am #

    ((( Taunia )))

    Very simply my heart goes out to you. Take care …..

  17. Val December 3, 2011 at 3:56 am #

    I’m sorry. I’m going through it rightnow too. it is painful. big HUGS! :(

  18. kaseypb December 3, 2011 at 2:17 pm #

    Much love Taunia as you work thru this difficult time.

  19. Michael Schultze December 4, 2011 at 1:59 am #

    My wife always gives me the following advice:

    “Everything happens for a reason.”

    I’ll be 100% honest, most of the time it ends up okay. Sometimes it just takes time and there is nothing you can do… and it really sucks.

    I know you are handling it on your own and you probably have great friends around you but if you just need to vent feel free to drop me a line anytime.

  20. Dena Klouse Waskiewicz December 13, 2011 at 10:54 am #

    Well, I had no idea, either, but I’ve been kind of MIA on the boards and Tube for a while. But you are loved, Taunia. Always know that this is a community that loves you and accepts you and will be there with you through thick & thin, good times & bad. It’s how we all make it through. ((hugs))

  21. shannon March 20, 2012 at 8:48 am #

    I always thoguht you were way too good for that guy anyways.

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